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You have just been diagnosed with a serious illness and your doctor is doing their best to provide you the information you need to proceed with treatment. You are terrified, overwhelmed and have no idea how to proceed. You feel like you are living out a nightmare.

The Journey of Childhood Cancer Mother

Robin Kanarek was in the same situation with her husband, Joe, when their ten-year-old son, David, was diagnosed with leukemia in 1995. Robin, though, was an R.N. with over fifteen years of nursing care experience and had the medical connections and background to navigate her son's care. But as David was ready to start high school at the age of fourteen, he relapsed, and it was discovered that his leukemia was more aggressive than his original diagnosis. As he was too weak for another two-year round of chemotherapy, the Kanareks could not find a perfect match for a bone marrow transplant for David; his only chance for survival was a stem cell transplant using his then ten-year-old sister, Sarah as a donor.

Robin and her family navigated two top health centers caring for David for almost five years. David's journey ended in despair when he died in 2000 following devastating complications from his transplant. He was fifteen years old, but their journey continued; and in the midst of their profound grief, the Kanareks attempted to make sense of what had happened to heal and keep their family intact. Their grief was so insurmountable that the Kanareks decided they needed to move abroad to heal privately and focus on helping their daughter adjust to the loss of her beloved brother, become an only child, and living in a new country, and making new friends. 

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A Purpose Grown out of Grief

It was in London that Robin started her journey to heal and give her family's life some semblance of normalcy. Two years of intense grief counseling helped her realize that she could share what she had learned from her devastating experience with her son's illness. Soon she began volunteering and fundraising for a U.K. organization that cared for adolescents and young adults with cancer. Robin realized that little attention had been given to the psychological, social or spiritual aspects of care for David or themselves. She soon learned about a subspecialty in 2006—palliative care. 

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How Palliative Care Helps Families Navigate the Emotional Challenges of Serious Illness

Most people, including health care providers, are unaware of palliative care's many benefits. Many equate palliative care with hospice, but it is not. Palliative care can be introduced at any time of a serious diagnosis and in conjunction with curative treatment, which hospice does not provide. Palliative care is ideally provided by an interdisciplinary team that includes physicians, nurses, social workers, chaplains, pharmacists, and allied health providers working together to address pain management, education, and medical, emotional, spiritual, and psychological support. Improving the quality of life for those who suffer from a serious or life-threatening illness is the key tenet of palliative care.

 A Guide to Palliative Care for Mind, Body, and Spirit 

In an effort to help other families with the unique and challenging needs of cancer treatment, Robin wrote her first book, Living Well with a Serious Illness: A Guide to Palliative Care for Mind, Body, and Spirit. The topic of this book is timely. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the number of individuals over 65 has surpassed those under the age of five. Never before have there been so many people over the age of fifty, the age when, statistically, the greatest incidence of serious and life-threatening diagnoses begins. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), six in ten adults in the U.S. have a chronic disease (four in ten adults have two chronic diseases). These numbers point to a growing need for palliative care, particularly as modern medicine offers more aggressive treatment options for the seriously ill.

book cover - Living Well with a Serious Illness: A Guide to Palliative Care for Mind, Body, and Spirit

Spreading the Word About the Benefits of Palliative Care

The public needs to be educated on the benefits of palliative care. Healthcare providers also require clarification on what palliative care encompasses. Unfortunately, there has been very little written in easy-to-understand language to educate the average consumer; most books on palliative care are textbooks geared toward healthcare professionals. There is a national conversation about recognizing the limits of current medicine and the importance of seeing "patients" as individuals who need and benefit from the care of mind, body, and spirit. That philosophy is the essence of palliative care.


Robin Bennett Kanarek, RN, is the president of the Kanarek Family Foundation, established in 2006, whose mission is to improve the quality of life for those affected by serious, life-threatening conditions through promoting, integrating, and educating the medical industry and the public about palliative and supportive care in all areas of health care. She lives in Greenwich, Connecticut. Her first book, Living Well with a Serious Illness: A Guide to Palliative Care for Mind, Body, and Spirit, is published by Johns Hopkins University Press. It can be purchased on Amazon.

Reviews:

Ms. Kanarek has performed a great service for all of us in the palliative care field. She has managed to write a book that explains, in layman's terms, what everyone should understand about the uses and benefits of palliative care. Even medical professionals will benefit from her discussions of how patients, their families, and their caregivers should be interacting when someone has a serious illness. This book should be on every bookshelf, to be read and reread as the need arises.
Barbara Pearce, President and CEO, The Connecticut Hospice, Branford, CT

This book is a gift to both clinicians and patients. Robin shared her story from the perspective of a healthcare giver, a wife, and a mother. She speaks to the heart of how the patient and entire family is affected in the face of serious illness. The gift is in the sharing and learning we can all do to ensure David and the Kanarek family's gift of their most private and painful moments will contribute to our better journey.
Diane P. Kelly, President, Greenwich Hospital; EVP, Yale New Haven Health

This book is essential reading for anyone who will live with a serious illness or care for someone with one―which is essentially everyone. Kanarek writes as a mother who shares the loss of her son and has spent three decades sharing her experience with others to support their journeys. It is a book written from the heart and is both a practical guide as well as a deep reflection of how to navigate the challenging, and sacred, time of the end of life.
Betty Ferrell, PhD, FAAN, FPCN, CHPN, Professor, City of Hope Medical Center, Duarte, CA

Robin Kanarek is the ideal translator of palliative care for people living in the real world. She is a nurse and knows our health care system. She cared for her own seriously ill child. If someone you love is sick, this book is your guide to the oasis that is palliative care, often hidden in plain sight, but yours for the asking.
Diane E. Meier, MD, Center to Advance Palliative Care, Icahn School of Medicine, Mount Sinai Hospital, New York City

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What Can We Learn About Hospice From Jimmy Carter?

Many articles have been written recently about the extraordinary life of President Jimmy Carter.  He has been praised for having the richest post-presidential life of any former President, although there is certainly a lot of competition (beginning with William Howard Taft, who went on to serve as Chief Justice of the US Supreme Court).  No one can deny, however, that Carter has done a great deal for humanity in his “golden” years.  He even won the Nobel Peace Prize for his efforts.

How to End a Long and Full Life

At 98, he has outlived every other former President, and is clearly an outlier in longevity, as in so many other areas of his life.  For the past six or seven years, he has been battling metastasized melanoma.  With lesions even on his brain, he appears from a distance to have continued to have a somewhat normal life.  Now, given his condition and his advanced age, he has chosen to end treatment, and enter hospice care at home.

As he has in other ways, he is teaching us much about how to end a long and full life.  Those of us who are in the hospice field hope that he lives for many months, since one of our major challenges remains getting people into hospice care in time to reap its benefits.  We hope that he is accessing social work, pastoral care, equipment, and palliative treatment.  

Requirements for Hospice Care

It is likely that anyone his age would meet the basic requirements for entering hospice care.  All that is necessary is a doctor’s referral, citing at least one condition that, left untreated, could result in death within a six-month period.  At 98, who would question that? In addition, providers look to assess the needs of patients by considering whether they have problems with, or require assistance with, ADL (Activities of Daily Living). It seems likely again, given that he is so old, that he would need help with at least some regular tasks.

Senior hospice patient being fed by a nurse

Palliative Care and Symptom Relief

While palliative care is provided for the relief of symptoms, it has a very different aim than curative treatment.  It is intended to make the patient comfortable.  Not all nonagenarians have pain, but the majority probably have some arthritis, stiffness, or just aches and pains.  They could have trouble swallowing, have a level of memory loss or dementia, or suffer from lasting effects of past medical treatment.  Making someone’s remaining time more comfortable is a primary goal for hospice workers.  

Pastoral Care in Hospice

Jimmy Carter’s deep Christian faith has been well documented.  Even he, though, is now going through a new experience.  Whether he has concerns for himself, for his 95-year-old wife, Rosalyn, or for other relatives, there may well be issues of closure or unfinished business.  Pastoral care professionals and social workers are included on a hospice team, and they begin by assessing risks of bereavement for those who will survive, as well as by determining what support would be useful for the patient him/herself.  These staff members also assist with the practical aspects of the dying process-funeral arrangements, paperwork, financial questions, and other issues of concern.  Although we can all marvel at the length of his life, that often does not diminish the grief felt by the family, or ensure that all necessary steps have been successfully completed.

A Living Will document

Customized Services and Therapies of Hospice

If the Carters are fortunate, their hospice will offer arts therapy and support, including home visits.  While this is not a condition of participation for Medicare reimbursement to a hospice, it is a wonderful additional service that many of us fundraise to be able to offer.  Music can often unlock memories and even speech in patients who have stopped talking, and arts therapists can help all members of a family to express their feelings with concrete objects or drawings.  Our hospice even has an artist who provides portraits of the patient, at the request of families.  These are often used at memorial services, and can serve as beloved mementos.  

Hospice Arts sign with flowers

In Good Hands

We often have spouses, in particular, say that they “breathed a sigh of relief” when the hospice team took over, and they could feel supported and freed from worry.  People in the home, when hospice care is given there, are given instruction on the use of “comfort packs”, which are left in case of increased pain or new symptoms that arise between nursing visits, as well as on other equipment and safety procedures.  They are also given a number to call, at any time of the day or night, instead of 911, if they have chosen DNR status.  Rather than be taken by ambulance to the hospital, they can be talked through issues or questions by a member of the hospice team.  After the patient has passed, the family can immediately reach out to hospice, who will come and do the legal death pronouncement, so that the body can be removed.  While there is no required timetable for any of this, the family can count on its hospice to be there for them.

Best Wishes for the Carter Family

We wish for President Carter and his family the peace and joy that can come with a period of reflection, togetherness, and letting go. Hospice staff members often comment that it is a privilege to spend time with those who are dying, and that there is often more joy than sorrow, made more likely by the absence of pain or the effects of treatment.  In addition to his years of national and charitable service, we are grateful to him for bringing attention to the benefits of hospice care.  He is once again leading by example, and we will all be better for it.  

Connecticut Hospice Statue of Hope

Further reading: 

USA Today: Jimmy Carter is in hospice care. Explaining the end-of-life care over 1 million Americans choose.

New York Times: How to Choose a Hospice

New York Times: How Does Hospice Care Work?

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The Ways That the Medicare Hospice Benefit (MHB) Needs to Be Changed

Covering Acute Treatment Instead of End of Life Care

Around the country, in all types of health care, there’s a not-so-hidden secret:  We, as a society, are not doing our best for those at the end of life.  We are starving the palliative, home care, and hospice fields, in order to spend more on acute hospitals, medications, and procedures.  The result is that Americans are now living longer than they used to, but have stopped increasing their years of “good quality” living.  More and more of them live with pain, disability, chronic conditions, and limitations on daily activities.  

Better End-Of-Life Decision Guidance

It isn’t so hard to figure out how we could improve the situation, but our systems are not set up to assist patients in making decisions about types of care, living situations, and end of life wishes.  Although almost everyone questioned in surveys says that they don’t want to die connected to tubes and machines in a hospital bed, that has become increasingly common.  Not only is it hard to have discussions about hospice care at the bedside, but it is actually almost always easier to get coverage for an emergency room visit and a hospitalization, than it is to be approved for inpatient hospice care.

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Stop the Cycle of Acute Episodes, ER Visits, and Rehab

Hospital stays and rehab stints drain patients, and they often come out with diminished energy and capacity, yet the next episode turns out to be much the same.  In today’s busy health care world, an ED visit can lead to 24 or 48 hours on a gurney in a hallway, never a prescription for optimal treatment.  In fact, hospitals have to admit patients after a certain number of hours in the ED, regardless of bed availability or final disposition.  

Revisiting the Purpose and Termsof the Medicare Hospice Benefit

How can we stop this vicious cycle?  We need to revisit the purpose and terms of the Medicare Hospice Benefit (MHB), passed by Congress almost exactly 40 years ago, with significant input and involvement of our Connecticut Hospice, the country’s first hospice.  At that time, there was no coverage for inpatient stays, and the MHB was viewed as a major step forward.  While that’s true, many of the criteria used at the time were randomly chosen, and need to be looked at in light of today’s realities. 

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Removing “Hospice” From the MHB Name

Let’s begin with the name.  Most of us in the field would like to see another moniker, perhaps the Advanced Illness Benefit.  The word “hospice” tends to frighten people, including relatives, and they can delay choosing it until too late in an illness, just for that reason.  Advanced Illness would convey that someone might be ready for palliative care and symptom management, instead of curative treatment, but without the finality that hospice implies.  

Including Coverage for Palliative Care

It would also encompass palliative care, which is often left out of the picture entirely.  Physicians have long known the benefits of treatments that reduce pain and suffering.  Take, for example, radiation for bone cancer.  That is prescribed to alleviate pain, not to cure the cancer, and it is a well-established course of treatment.  However, palliative care is not always covered by commercial insurance companies, and is compensated minimally by Medicare.  

Hospice and Palliative on chalkboard held by doctor

Studies have shown repeatedly that, in many instances, palliative or hospice care can lengthen someone’s life just as much as an operation or chemo, yet is not always offered as a choice, as it is in short supply, plus it is a money loser for every hospice in the country.  We can only afford to do so much of it, because our reimbursement does not begin to cover the cost, and is especially not keeping up with the recent rise in nursing salaries.  

Changing the Six-Month Prognosis Limit

We should also look again at the six-month limit used in the MHB.  While that is not a final upper limit—it just means that, without treatment, the person’s illness is likely to run its course within six months—it does tend to make people wait too long to enter supportive care.  While many people are recertified, and do stay in our care for multiple certification periods, the six-month criterion sounds like a true end-stage development, whereas patients who enter supportive care sooner can live fuller, richer lives for far longer than those who do not.

Changing General Inpatient Eligibility

The definition of General Inpatient (GIP) eligibility is neither clear nor consistent.  We are allowed to keep patients in an inpatient setting if “care in any other setting is not feasible”.  That’s subjective, and overlooks the fact that many patients come to our inpatient unit because they don’t need an acute-care hospital bed, but they are too sick for a skilled nursing facility or a home setting.  It would seem that those people would fit into the definition above, but here’s the catch:  Our goal is to make them comfortable, by adjusting medications and providing skilled care.  However, once they are deemed “comfortable”, they become ineligible to stay, even if they are taking twenty doses of medications in a day.  Translated, that means that, once we are doing our job, we are out of a job.  Needless to say, that isn’t an easy message to convey to grieving families.  

Expanding Coverage for Therapies, Treatments, and Medications

There are other items in the MHB with which we might quibble, such as which therapies, treatments, and medications should be covered, but a complete overhaul is really necessary to address the issues above.  If we do not, we are guaranteed to continue spiraling upward in our healthcare costs as a nation.  As our population ages, they will need more and more skilled care.  If we go on paying for procedures and even experimental treatments, but not for basic symptom management, we will be driving people toward expensive plans of care that won’t work, and that they may not even want. 

Overhauling the 40-Year-Old Criteria

Forty years is a long time.  Just as the boundaries of neonatal potential have grown, so too have our abilities to prolong the other end of life.  We don’t always provide the quality of that life along with the treatment.  When we do surveys, most of those answering say that they want to die with dignity, with their faculties, and not in pain.  Why can’t we all commit to a system which will allow hospitals, hospices, and home care agencies to provide exactly that?  We know that it will cost less than what we are doing now, and we know that the end of life can be better for many.  

How to Effect Change in End-Of-Life Care

Secure a Living Will, and a Health Care Agent

What can you do about this problem?  First of all, put your own house in order.  Make sure that you have a living will, and a health care agent.  Discuss your wishes with your loved ones.  Write down anything that you think might be forgotten in an emergency.  Carry those documents with you, if you think there might be any need for them, or, better yet, have them entered into your electronic medical record. 

Living Will Document

Advocate for a Medicare Hospice Benefit Overhaul

However, there is another stage of action, and that involves the national scene.  Write or call your Congressperson and Senators, and advocate for a major overhaul of the Medicare Hospice Benefit.  All you need to know, in order to find this important, is that half of the Cares Act money during COVID that was meant for hospice care was earmarked for increased fraud investigation in the industry.  While every field has some misspent money, the vast majority of end of life providers are trying, with increasing difficulty, to find a way to help our citizens to spend their final days in comfort and peace.  We often joke that no one lies to get into a hospice, but the underlying point is clear:  We provide a vital service to the most vulnerable among us, and we fulfill a huge need in our society.  Please help us help you.

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Reasons Why Donations Are Essential for Hospice Care

We do a lot of fundraising in the hospice field.  One might ask why that is so, since Medicare and Medicaid represent over 90% of our patient accounts.  While the amount they reimburse may creep up a little each year, it does not cover all hospice services. Also, Medicare and Medicaid reimbursement does not keep up with the actual cost of what it covers.​

Increasing Wage of Healthcare Professionals

For example, most people know that nurses and other healthcare professionals, and paraprofessionals are in very short supply, particularly since the onset of COVID.  Their hourly rates have gone up multiple times just in the past year, and most make 25 to 50% more than they did a year ago.  Medicare’s single-digit raise in rates won’t be enough to attract and retain the staff necessary to admit and care for patients and families.  

Rising Costs of Goods, Fuel, and Services

Many other costs, affected by the supply chain issues we all face, have also gone up dramatically.  Not just the food we serve in the inpatient unit, but the mileage costs for home care providers, the electricity we use, and most other goods and services have increased over the past year.  Again, Medicare and Medicaid do not match those raised prices.

Rising Costs of Maintenance/Capital Expenditures

Even if we were to be reimbursed enough to provide care, that does not address the needs of the physical plant.  Over time, we have had to replace our roof, our HVAC system, our generator, our water tanks, our medical equipment, and our inpatient furniture and fixtures.  We could all have sticker shock looking at furniture prices and shipping costs, but that would not pay to buy new bedside chairs, recliners, or privacy curtains.

Workers repairing hospice roof

Increased Need for Mental Health Professionals

Mental health issues have risen all over the world in recent years, and hospices are no exception.  We need more social workers, who are also in short supply, as well as more pastoral and bereavement counselors, just to meet the needs we see in our population. Their average hourly rates are also rising.

Climbing Health Insurance Rates 

Even in fields where salaries have traditionally been lower—food services, maintenance, and housekeeping—we have a responsibility to offer a living wage, and the competitive necessity to do so. Benefits are a big part of the increases, and we know all too well what has happened to health insurance rates.

Costs of Services Not Covered by Medicare/Medicaid

Medicare does not cover the arts as a discipline, but hospice patients, families, and the staff all benefit from having those resources on hand.  Music and art therapy can help children facing loss, patients with dementia wishing to recover memories, or grieving visitors.  We count on donor dollars to pay that overhead, and think it is money well spent.

Painted Sign presented to family member
Female artist drawing at desk
Guitar player with female patient in hospitasl bed

Allowances to Fund Those in Need

Just as churches often have a minister’s fund to cover unplanned expenses in times of crisis, we also have a fund to meet those needs.  We have paid for cremations, groceries, travel costs, and even some last wishes, and are very glad to be able to do so.  

Unanticipated Critical Expenses

Even we have unanticipated needs:  the pipe that backs up and spews oil into the yard; the hurricane cleanup that was not in the budget; or the snowplow that breaks down in winter.  We depend on generous donors to help with those emergencies, and a few that are not as critical, but just as appreciated, such as the refurbishment of the prayer room.

Regional Water donation To Go Truck

Ways to Support Connecticut Hospice

Assigned Charitable Gifts

Some donors choose to earmark their gifts for specific items, and we certainly honor that.  We thank the group that gave us the ice-crushing machine, and another that paid for dementia kits for nursing home patients.  Others give in memory of a loved one, by buying a brick for our walkway or a leaf for our tree.  A new addition is the Hospice Hero wall, where people honor a staff member whose care made a particular difference in their lives.  Most just give to a general fund, and that money adds up to 15% of the cost of the entire Connecticut Hospice budget.

Engraved Legacy Stone bricks with leaves
Connecticut Hospice Tree of Life

Volunteers Are an Essential Part of Hospice Care

We should not forget that many give of their time and talents.  The dedicated pet owners who bring their dogs to visit lonely patients, or the musicians that play in the lobby or in the wings of the inpatient facility, or the barber who came to cut hair—all of them are indispensable.  Medicare actually requires that 5% of all of our work be done by volunteers, and we have hundreds of them, from high school and college students to retired professionals of all kinds, most of whom say that they get more out of volunteering than they put in.  Our reports to the government have to show a monetary value to all of that time, and it really adds up.

Volunteer Male piano player
Volunteers checking in visitors
Blue crocheted blanket presented to Hospice

In-Kind Donations of Goods and Services

Businesses also participate, bringing groups of volunteers for service days, or donating materials and food.  We receive donations of flowers, and have volunteers who help to keep our plants thriving. Many companies cut their rates for nonprofits, or at least for us.  Even our fundraisers and other events depend upon donations and volunteer workers.  

Volunteer Female gardener
Hospice Volunteers surrounding newly painted picnic table
Hospice Volunteers ready for outside yard clean up

The saying that “it takes a village” is never more true than at Connecticut Hospice.  We are grateful every day for the kindness of friends and strangers.  Our patients and their families are thankful as well, and no donation of any kind is too small to make a difference in the lives of those in need.

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Please Support Us

Please make a gift to help us sustain the highest standard of care.

As a not-for-profit, we depend in part upon generous donors who understand that unlike our for-profit competitors, we provide customized services and therapies that aren’t completely covered by Medicaid, Medicare or private insurance. We strive to go above and beyond the standards set for hospice care, and your generosity allows us to do so.

Social worker speaking with hospice family

Understanding the Aspects of Social Work Services in Hospice Care

Hospice programs are required to provide social work services as a “Condition of Participation” for the Medicare Hospice benefit, but many families do not realize the extensive components offered.

Some Families Resist Social Work Services

In fact, it can sometimes be difficult for social workers to get into homes to see families, where home hospice care is being given.  Although there can be feelings of wanting to withdraw from outside interventions or visits, more often it is because people do not fully grasp the wide breadth of what hospice social work offers.

What Does a Hospice Social Worker Do?

Initial Assessment Evaluates Status, Needs, and Goals

The first standard of hospice social work is to do what is called an initial assessment.  It provides an early glimpse of where the patient and his or her loved ones are, in terms of their understanding of the illness and its progression, preparation for decisions that may need to be made, and where they are in the grief process. 

It is not uncommon for families to express their feelings that they have no need for any such help, and to see taking any advice or counsel as somehow being a sign of dysfunction, or an inability to care for their loved one properly.  

Ease Practical End-of-Life Burdens

Social workers go far beyond what that would imply, about being there to fill in where a family cannot cope.  Although that can be true, a more useful way to think about their services is to compare them to a compassionate and expert event planner.  Death has its own set of rituals, red tape, financial considerations, and especially emotional ramifications.  Sitting with someone who does this for a living can not only bring comfort and clarity, but can ease many practical burdens that arise with sometimes overwhelming speed, as health declines.

Hospice Social Workers Help Establish Goals of Care

One important early conversation, with the patient if he/she is able, or otherwise with the family or friends, is about the goals of care.  

Examples of Questions About Hospice Care Goals:

Examples of Last Wish Fulfillment at Connecticut Hospice

Family Wedding at Our Facility

That last question leads to what is perhaps the most joyous part of a social worker’s job.  Maybe there is an upcoming marriage that can be accelerated.  Social workers have planned weddings, both for patients and for their children and grandchildren, sometimes even in our inpatient facility or on its waterfront grounds.  One family wanted a Disney-themed wedding, to commemorate a family trip, and the social work staff decorated the room, while the arts staff brushed up on Disney tunes to play at the bedside.  A beaming bride had mouse ears on, to complement her wedding dress. 

Hospice family holds wedding

Birthday Parties and Anniversary Celebrations

Other ceremonies have taken place with regularity, such as birthday parties or anniversary celebrations.  

Connecticut Hospice Patient has a surprise princess birthday party
Man holding Happy Anniversary sign

Graduations

One of the most poignant was a graduation, where the professors came in academic garb, to present the patient with her recently earned diploma. In all of these cases, the social work staff works with the family to achieve those goals.

Professor holds graduation ceremony at Connecticut Hospice Facility

Saying Goodbye

Goodbyes of all kinds also fall into hospice social workers' purview.  Dealing with children’s grief, and the preferences of the patient and other relatives can be a difficult, but rewarding task.  There may be times when patients need transportation by ambulance, in order to say those farewells to a person or place, and social workers can make that happen.  When the hospice care is not in the home, there can be arrangements made for pets to be present.  Even a horse came to our backyard, so that its owner could see it one last time.

Hospice Patient-saying goodbye to dog
Horse visits patient at Connecticut Hospice

Last wishes can range from a favorite food to a video to leave behind, from putting toes in the ocean at the end of life to finishing a last book or article.  Whatever closure means becomes the social worker’s goal to facilitate.

Hospice patient traveling to say last goodbye

Planning a Memorial Service or Funeral

Planning a memorial service or funeral falls into the category of last wishes, as well as deciding about DNR/DNI or treatment choices.  Even broaching those subjects with family members can be something in which the social worker participates, especially when some relatives have not understood or accepted the disease trajectory.  

Hospice Legacy stone with name and year of death

Other Ways That Hospice Social Workers Support Patients and Families

Explaining Financial Considerations

Financial considerations, including Title XIX applications, can be explained by social workers.  They also do discharge planning when people can no longer live independently, and can help to narrow the options and help with the choice of a nursing home, should that be necessary.  They are charged with making sure that the patient is safe in whatever environment is chosen.

Provide Support to Patients With No Family

When there are no relatives, a social worker can even take over some of the role that a family member would otherwise play.  They can reach out to people that the patient wants to see, help with household tasks, or just keep someone company.  One often-made comment about the end of life is that the days may be short, but the minutes and hours can be long.  Having someone objective with whom to talk can be so important.  

Social Workers Are Vital to Hospice Care

By now it is clear that social workers fill a vital role in many aspects of hospice care, no matter the setting of that care.  They are special people, and they bring a combination of practicality and compassion that is so necessary for both patients and families.  Whether they are serving as coordinators or counselors, they can play a part in every patient’s journey.  Developing a relationship with them early in the process can make a difference all along the way.  If there is a question of any kind, and the social worker doesn’t know the answer, he or she probably knows how to help get that answer. 

Most of us know social workers in some setting, because they are so versatile in their career choices.  What they do varies tremendously by location, so a school social worker or a prison social worker may do very diverse jobs.  It is hard to imagine, however, that anyone could have a position that is more fluid that that of a hospice social worker.  They are truly indispensable.  

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Why Isn’t My Loved One Eligible for Inpatient Hospice?

Of all the questions we get asked by families calling our Admissions Office at The Connecticut Hospice, this is the most common one, and one of the hardest to answer.  The very short answer is that Medicare is calling the shots for hospice providers.

Medicare Dictates Inpatient Hospice Eligibility

There are many rules that govern hospice care and hospice eligibility.  Some people, who are not primarily covered by Medicaid or Medicare, have insurance plans with gatekeepers, who dictate whether someone can have their stay in our inpatient unit covered by their insurance plan, and for how long.  This is mostly for those under 65, and, while companies and plans vary, such admissions are generally approved.  At least one large employer in our region has a lifetime limit on hospice care of all kinds, but that type of restriction is rare.  

Almost 95% of our patients on our home care or inpatient service are covered by either Medicare or Medicare.  Those rules are set by the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), which is part of the United States Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), the Federal department that governs, among other things, Medicare reimbursement.  Connecticut Hospice was the first provider in the country to be reimbursed by Medicare for hospice care, and that bill was passed in 1983.  It is updated annually as to rates, and there are sometimes changes in the rules, or new interpretations of those rules.

Medicare Criterion: Life Expectancy Within Six Months

Recently, these interpretations have focused on fraud, with half of the CARES Act money during COVID going toward more investigators, to make sure that people are not being covered for hospice care if they are not entitled to it.  While the standard is not black and white, the most commonly cited dictum is that the patient’s primary diagnosis, if left untreated, would likely result in death within six months.  This is invoked so often that it is shocking to note that the period of time—six months—was chosen arbitrarily at the time the original bill was enacted.  While there has been much encouragement from the industry to make that period 12 or even 24 months, that has not yet happened.  

Medicare Criterion: Outpatient Treatment Isn’t Feasible

Once the patient’s eligibility for hospice care has been established, there is a further requirement for inpatient care to be allowed.  The rule is that the patient cannot be feasibly treated in another setting.  Clearly, that is a definition that cannot be applied without using some medical judgment.  Symptom management must be required at a level which cannot be sustained in the home or in a skilled nursing facility.  Generally, this would refer to breakthrough pain, extreme agitation, or the need for frequent adjustments in medication with an onsite pharmacy.  

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Not Medicare Criteria: Dying Prognosis or Discomfort

The most shocking part of the above definition is that nowhere does it refer to the patient’s prognosis.  Dying is not, by itself, a criterion for inpatient hospice care.  “Comfrtable” is not a condition that, while all hospices strive to achieve it, is acceptable in an inpatient setting, except with respite care.

Respite care is allowed by Medicare for no more than five days during each certification period (60 or 90 days).  Patients can come to an inpatient facility for pain management or caregiver breakdown (again, not a term that has an unambiguous definition).   

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Non-hospice Patients May Be Covered for Inpatient Symptom Management

Sometimes, non-hospice patients can also be brought to an inpatient unit for symptom management, on a Diagnostic Related Group (DRG) basis.  That can only happen at Connecticut Hospice because we are separately licensed as an acute care specialty hospital, in addition to being licensed as an inpatient hospice and as a home hospice.  That would be a limited stay to address issues or adjust medications, with the idea that the patient could then return home.  Since those patients are not enrolled in hospice, they don’t need to qualify in any particular way for CMS, but they do need to require symptom management.

Medicare Coverage Rules can Seem Arbitrary and Unfair

It is certainly understandable that patients and their families would find all these rules confusing, and perhaps unfair.  Each family has its own understanding of what care at home entails, and differing capacities for providing it.  What constitutes an acceptable level of home care by the family, according to Medicare, can include up to 18 injections per day of medication.  Even when a caregiver can provide that level of support, the strain of not sleeping, especially if the patient is agitated and restless, can be extremely wearing.  When they call about an inpatient bed, and are told that their loved one is not inpatient eligible, that can be very upsetting to hear.  

Unfortunately, we have the beds to take those patients, but not the ability to get paid the inpatient rate for them.  Occasionally, and more often during COVID, families whose loved one qualifies for home (routine) hospice care may choose to bring them into our inpatient facility, and privately pay the difference between what Medicare will pay for home care, and what it pays for inpatient care.  

We are incredibly sympathetic to those who find this onerous, and totally understand that it is not a choice that every family can afford to make.  The entire industry is lobbying for a better, fairer, and more comprehensive approach to end-of-life care in this country.  As the baby boomers age, our collective system for caring for those with terminal illnesses will be stressed to the breaking point.  Some cultures deal with this issue differently, but, in our increasingly global culture, not everyone will live close enough to their elders for family care to work.

Effect Change By Speaking Up

It sounds like a bad joke to tell people to “write to their Congressional representatives”, but that is the only way things will change.  In the meantime, Medicare and Medicaid will continue to dictate the amount of care it will provide, and the amount they will pay providers to give it.  When they audit hospice providers, which they are doing on an alarmingly increasing basis, they can unilaterally decide that someone didn’t need to be in inpatient hospice care, or in hospice care at all.  At that point, they withdraw the money for that patient from our account with them, and we can either accept that, or go to an Administrative Law Judge to appeal the ruling.  That process takes up to five years, during which we do not have the use of the money, even if we win it back in the end.  Some hospices have simply shut their doors in these circumstances, since they are spending their time in litigation rather than in patient care.  

Why We Have to Turn Some Patients Away

All of this is a very long answer to the simple question of why we say no to so many patient families who inquire about inpatient care.  While we would love to provide it, we cannot do so, if it means that we will be doing it for free.  Therefore, we have to apply the same lens that the government uses when evaluating a patient, and that causes us to turn down many people we would otherwise admit.  

So, if you are calling us about an admission, you and your doctor must be prepared to meet the standard that our inpatient facility is the only feasible place to treat the patient’s pain and symptoms.  All of us know that we are experts in providing the best in end-of-life care, but we are not the ones deciding when we are allowed to do that.  If privately paying the difference is an option for your family, we are happy to discuss that avenue, but we are not trying to push people toward that alternative.  In a perfect world, we would take all comers, and care for them with our customary competence and compassion.  Until such a system exists, we will care for all those whom we are approved to take on an inpatient basis, and offer home hospice care to the others, if they qualify for that service.  

We hope you understand that we are sympathetic to your needs, and are doing our best to accommodate all the patients we can.  

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